Emma Parsons-Reid knows all too well about the trade-offs that come with antidepressants. Battling the terror of waking up at 3am with anxiety, she turned to sertraline and paroxetine for relief. While these medications helped her sleep, they came with a side effect she hadn’t anticipated: a significant impact on her sex life.
Emma, 58, has been through some tough times. From dealing with family health crises to personal heartbreak, life hasn’t been easy. Previously, antidepressants helped her get through her marriage breakdown in the late ’90s, but they also introduced challenges like reduced sexual sensation. After meeting her current husband Kevin, Emma found happiness again but needed to revisit medication for support with ongoing family struggles.
Now Emma is speaking out about the hidden side effects of antidepressants that many people don’t feel comfortable discussing: sexual dysfunction. In the UK, over half of antidepressant users experience these issues, yet it’s not commonly talked about.
Despite the challenges, Emma is determined to maintain her quality of life. She’s partnered with Lovehoney to highlight this issue, encouraging openness about the impact on intimacy. With the right support and adjustments, Emma finds a balance that works for her, keeping both her mental health and relationship in check.
Her message is clear: don’t hesitate to discuss these side effects with your doctor. Many people share this experience, and there are ways to manage and improve it. Simple changes, conversations, or therapy can make a big difference.
Remember, it’s about finding the right balance. Emma advises: “I only take a low dose to stop myself from cracking. I want to feel normal both emotionally and sexually.”
The conversation about antidepressants and sexual health is long overdue. By sharing her story, Emma hopes others will feel empowered to seek the help and adjustments they need. Take care of yourself and remember, you’re not alone.