Libby Rose Martin is standing her ground on dating apps, and we couldn’t be prouder! The 22-year-old, plus-size fashion designer from Sandwich, Kent, is determined not to let a few rude comments deter her from finding love. 🌟 Libby has been searching for Mr. Right on Hinge since March 2025, but instead of catching the eye of a potential partner, she’s been matched by guys only wanting to comment on her weight.
One cheeky fellow asked her for “bulking tips,” implying that she “can sure take in calories.” Instead of blocking him, Libby decided to take the high road, responding with grace and using the opportunity to educate him. She knows her worth and isn’t afraid to show it. 💪
Libby’s clapped back on TikTok, sharing the judgmental messages and highlighting the rude behaviour plus-size women often face on these platforms. Though she reported the incident, the dating app didn’t take it as seriously as they should have. In Libby’s words, her existence and appearance aim to please her own gaze, not anyone else’s, and many men appreciate her beauty just the way it is.
Having faced a binge-eating disorder after losing her mum last year, Libby admits dating can be tougher for plus-size singletons, but she’s not giving up. She’s dealt with people fetishising her body and dismissing her due to societal beauty standards, but believes true beauty doesn’t fit a mould.
Libby’s message is clear: bad behaviour says more about the commenter than it does about her or anyone plus-sized. So ladies, next time someone tries to put you down, remember you’re not alone, and there’s plenty more fish in the sea. Love is for everyone! 💖
Dating apps, are you listening? It’s high time you took a stand against bullying and harassment. Let’s create a kinder, more inclusive space for everyone. 🌈
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