Be cautious on dating apps: Katie Yates’ story is a chilling reminder that not everyone is who they seem. After meeting Jason, a seemingly charming man online, she endured months of abuse that ended in a horrific attempt on her life. Jason Smith now serves a 15-year prison sentence, but Katie bravely shares her story to warn others.


Following a painful divorce, Katie ventured into online dating, where Jason’s flattery and charm initially appeared genuine. Soon, though, his mask slipped, revealing a controlling monster who isolated her from family and subjected her to physical and emotional abuse. The situation escalated to unbearable levels when he raped her and tried to drown her in the bath.
Katie’s nightmare peaked during a December holiday, where his violent behaviour saw him removed by staff. But the horrors continued back home where abuse became intolerable. Terrified, Katie sought help from her parents, who barely recognised her due to the injuries.

Jason was arrested, tried, and rightfully convicted of his heinous crimes. But even with him behind bars, Katie battles the trauma left behind. Her courage in waiving anonymity highlights the dangerous reality some face in relationships. This story stands as both a warning and a testament to her strength.
For anyone affected by domestic violence or sexual assault, help is available. Contact Live Fear Free on 0808 8010 800 for confidential advice and support, or reach out to Refuge at 0808 2000 247 for immediate assistance. Both lines are available 24/7.
Stay safe, trust your instincts, and never hesitate to reach out for help. Let’s raise awareness and prevent others from enduring such pain. Katie’s story is a sobering reminder to stay vigilant and support each other.