👶 Dads, have you ever felt like something’s off? You’re not alone. Meet Tom Phillips, a 27-year-old dad from Devon who bravely shares his story to help others. Tom never envisioned himself as a father until he met Francesca. Fast forward, they welcomed little Jude into the world. But instead of bursting with joy, Tom found himself feeling “numb”, battling anxiety and depression. He felt guilty for struggling, especially knowing how much Francesca had to cope with. 😔
Feeling like a “bad dad” and a “spare part” in his own family, Tom realised there’s a lack of support for new fathers experiencing postpartum depression. Believing he was “wired wrong,” he discovered he was far from alone—thousands of dads face similar struggles. 💔
Tom wants all dads to know: feeling vulnerable doesn’t diminish your role; it can actually strengthen your family. Through honest conversations, like the ones Tom eventually had with a work colleague, fathers can find relief and realise they’re not ‘broken’. When Jude smiled at him for the first time, Tom felt the bond he’d longed for. 👫
He even created the Dad & Baby app, empowering fathers with tailored advice and support, proving it’s not a competition with mums but a journey alongside them. Now expecting another baby, Tom is ready and excited, knowing the real pressures and joys that lie ahead. 🙌
Dads, remember: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Embrace your feelings, open up, and let’s break the stigma around dads and mental health. Together, we can create stronger family bonds and happier homes. 💪❤️
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