Tragedy struck Budleigh Salterton as beloved antique dealer, Matthew Upham, aged 63, went missing during a festive Christmas Day swim. Known for his kindness and sweet soul, Matthew ventured into the sea despite challenging conditions and powerful winds, but never made it back. A second man, believed to be in his 40s, also disappeared, possibly attempting to save Matthew.
Heartbroken family members paid tribute to Matthew, describing him as an ‘exceptionally kind’ person cherished by all. Friends and locals shared fond memories, calling him “a bright shining light” and “a beautiful man with the sweetest soul.”
Eyewitnesses recounted the dramatic scene as towering waves crashed against the beach, causing chaos among the crowd gathered for the traditional swim. Onlookers watched in horror as Matthew struggled to exit the water before being pulled back and swept away. Emergency services, including the RNLI and coastguard, launched an exhaustive search, but sadly, both men remain missing.
Grateful for the tireless efforts of the rescue teams, Matthew’s family expressed sincere thanks to the responders. They lovingly remembered a man who brought joy wherever he went and asked for privacy during this difficult time.
The community mourns the loss of a cherished figure, as flowers and heartfelt messages adorn the beach where he disappeared. As stories of Matthew’s warmth and generosity continue to emerge, it’s clear he will be deeply missed by many.